so i was talking to my friend Ken from Hong Kong. I’ve only met him twice in my life but he’s watched me grown up ‘online’ for the past 8 years. He’s a nice man, really. Very the techie. Well, what else can you refer yourself to, if you’ve been working in IT all your life…?
anyway, Ken’s been looking for new challenges elsewhere and after millions of interviews, he comes online looking for me and hits me with a one liner.
Job interviews are like first dates.
reasoning :
you sit down with another person, You talk, share mmts of your life, triumphs, hardship, experiences, joy, pain etc, and then you find out more about the other person. Then u go home, feeling either effed up cos you could have either done a better job, or happy cos you thought you might have passed the first test.
AND THEN YOU HAVE TO WAIT FOR A CALL. or vice versa, wait for a good time to call.
of course along the interview, things like money matters creep in, but let’s keep that to the materialistic side of things - perhaps comparable to noticing how your date wears a tiffany ring, or drives a Lexus.
so yeah its true, job interviews are like first dates. If u effed it up, its a goner and if the person likes you enough, you’re in for the second test. Then it goes on to more a secure job position, a one or three month supervision period and then after confirmation, you have finally GOTTEN that job.
Like a date, you go on more dates and end up a couple AFTER CONFIRMATION.
oh well. Ken doesn’t seem to happy, and i understand.
I just hope he finds ‘the One’ soon.
heh,
sabby